From her obituary...
With heavy hearts, we share the passing of our dear friend, Barbara J. O’Connell (Relihan). Barbara left us peacefully on Saturday, January 25, 2025, in Virginia, surrounded by her loving family. Born on May 17, 1929, in Rutland, Vermont, to the late Harold and Octavia Relihan (Bell), she was a cherished member of the Abbewood Estates community for many years.
Barbara was a vibrant part of our lives—a past President of the Enfield Claddagh Club, a dedicated book lover, and an active member of our Abbewood book club. Her creativity knew no bounds; whether painting, sewing, knitting, or quilting, she poured love into every piece she made, leaving behind beautiful keepsakes for her family and friends.
More than anything, Barbara treasured time with her loved ones. She celebrated life’s moments, big and small, and made every gathering special. Her warmth, wisdom, Irish wit, and ever-present smile brought joy to everyone around her. To know Barbara was to love her, and her kindness and friendship will be missed beyond words.
We invite all who knew and loved Barbara to join us in honoring her memory. Visitation will be held on Friday, January 31, 2025, from 4-7 p.m. at Leete-Stevens Enfield Chapels, 61 South Road, Enfield, CT. A funeral procession will gather at the funeral home at 9 a.m. on Saturday, February 1, 2025, before a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at St. Bernard Church, 426 Hazard Avenue, Enfield. Barbara will be laid to rest at St. Bernard Cemetery.
In her memory, donations may be made to the Mark O’Connell Foundation for Lake Winnipesaukee Safety at https://www.themarkoconnellfoundation.com/take-action.
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Barbara was a gift to us all, and while she may be gone, the love and joy she shared will remain in our hearts forever.